tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post375099341316962728..comments2023-11-05T05:49:46.696-05:00Comments on The Boss Chic Files: Ex Girl To The Next GirlLaBellaBosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07681833044964414103noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post-21825526350386235262011-02-04T21:45:10.665-05:002011-02-04T21:45:10.665-05:00Girl, lemme tell you (Typical conversation starter...Girl, lemme tell you (Typical conversation starter, lol). In high school, I was (and still am) friends with this girl that I grew up that asked "permission" to go out with someone I dated (and actually lost my virginity to) and I was perfectly fine with it. I was over the relationship and til this day, the guy & I are very cool with each other. The main topic of any convo we have is our children and how happy we are to be parents; there really isn't nothing to discuss. I have had females try to befriend me just to get to the ex and I wasn't having it. Gotta nip that sh*t in the bud from the beginning - don't let them in and think things are gravy, I am NOT a tool; don't use me to try to absorb some sort of information because it isn't going down...Erica Nicholehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16518572723445625555noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post-85517229677800004372011-02-04T18:58:35.779-05:002011-02-04T18:58:35.779-05:00Sorry it went down like that but at least u learne...Sorry it went down like that but at least u learned from it =)LaBellaBosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07681833044964414103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post-1590886523590931832011-02-04T18:36:33.724-05:002011-02-04T18:36:33.724-05:00I have been in this situation. The ex and I did en...I have been in this situation. The ex and I did end up back-stabbing each other. It is best to speak and keep it moving. Lesson learned and I have moved on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post-46092439217544106272011-02-04T12:22:19.494-05:002011-02-04T12:22:19.494-05:00I agree, there really isn't a right or wrong. ...I agree, there really isn't a right or wrong. It really all depends on the extent of both relationships, the characters of the people involved, and of course trust. I do think it would put the guy in an awkward position, so I don't know how he would feel about it. But me personally, in my past relationships I wouldn't go out my way to become friends with any of my ex's current girlfriends. Now I do have an ex whose girlfriend I was previously cool with. Although I don't see her often, we still get along and chat from time to time. So it definitely can go either way with this, but as far as making a new close friend out of a SERIOUS ex boyfriend's new girl, I don't think I could do itLaBellaBosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07681833044964414103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post-88699577218506106172011-02-04T11:32:55.230-05:002011-02-04T11:32:55.230-05:00I think society plays a major role in painting the...I think society plays a major role in painting the picture of ex's being spiteful against one another and playing the selfish role; however, guys tend to date girls that have similar characteristics/personalities or have something in common (most of the time) so if you become friends for the RIGHT reasons why not? Some good friendships come out of messed up events. I think its jus being mature about a situation and that's not saying leaving yourself vunerable either. You jus gotta kno who to trust and who u can't and that's for anybody. If what was done is really over then go for it! If you have to question the other person's motives then hell nah! But what works for some doesn't work for others so technically I don't think there is a right or wrong answer to the questionAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com