tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post8856484506983202616..comments2023-11-05T05:49:46.696-05:00Comments on The Boss Chic Files: Either You Do Or You Don'tLaBellaBosshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07681833044964414103noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post-86203068253572390302011-05-04T10:25:05.857-04:002011-05-04T10:25:05.857-04:00Did anybody watch the royal wedding? Ha ha..the sp...Did anybody watch the royal wedding? Ha ha..the speaker defined marriage exactly by my standards..but id be writing a book should I repeat. Marriage isn't about the relationship being perfect, but reflecting Gods perfect love through each other. Marriage to me signifies finding a mate that you are so in love with and tolerant of their strength and weaknesses that when you become one under God..believing that he will help u to service and build one another. All other blessings will fall into place because you have refrained from sexual immorality and have agreed to be a help mate. Ppl marry for celebrity status nowadays ..for the ring..the name...but if its not meaningful and built on an emotional, spiritual foundation, there are gonna be indiscretions, heartache, lack of direction, and somebody gon end up broke. LolBossyAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04293853422331803923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post-17569493573158725722011-05-04T09:42:31.548-04:002011-05-04T09:42:31.548-04:00I personally am not RUNNING to the alter but I am ...I personally am not RUNNING to the alter but I am walking at a steady pace. I think everyone's opinion on<br />marriage comes from personal life experience. For instance if you grew up in a house with 2 married parents you're more likely to want to get married yourself. But this theory doesn't always prove true. There may be some whose parents were split and they want to marry anyway. I agree with LaBella Boss that you should first marry to love and all else will fall in place. And I'm a firm believer that any marriage or relationship should keel God first in it so it has a better chance of surviving.LeTreivianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post-16001695658505525272011-05-04T09:23:52.907-04:002011-05-04T09:23:52.907-04:00I think we sometimes forget the most sacred reason...I think we sometimes forget the most sacred reason of marriage. My boyfriend and I have chosen not to get married yet because we're not spiritually ready to make that promise to God. I agree that there is a great financial gain to marriage, especially in the military because we get paid when you're married and/or have children. I see situations everyday when get "contract" marriages just make more money and its sad and not mention illegal and could cost your entire military career. Just my two cent (:Ball(her)noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post-65267004995432906702011-05-04T09:12:44.911-04:002011-05-04T09:12:44.911-04:00I agree Danielle. I think people forget about lovi...I agree Danielle. I think people forget about loving themselves first and focusing on the "Self" before trying to seek the "one". I also think that we spend too much time trying to make something work in fear of moving on... so we end up wasting time on the wrong person and sometimes never get to the right one or miss out on the right one. love and life definitely are not fair lol, I guess it's all about playing the hand that you are dealt well.LaBellaBosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07681833044964414103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post-84521388473444117012011-05-04T09:01:44.876-04:002011-05-04T09:01:44.876-04:00I really enjoyed reading this because it does seem...I really enjoyed reading this because it does seem like people's values and ideas about marriage have drastically changed. I personally believe that marriages can be GREAT if done the right way. So many times people dont get a chance to live for themselves before saying I do. If we would take time to learn who we are as individuals, we would be better equipped to find the "one." I've seen enough failed marriages to know what not to do and I hope when the time is right, I will be able to spend my life with someone that I love, who is also my friend and partner in every way!!!!DanielleSnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post-72689832694948213522011-05-04T08:34:17.867-04:002011-05-04T08:34:17.867-04:00Thank you! But I have to agree. Marriage is SUPPOS...Thank you! But I have to agree. Marriage is SUPPOSED to be about something special and worthwhile, but really these days we don't know about that selfless unconditional love. One something goes wrong or things get a little difficult we are quick to leave the relationship. I think the way society has changed over time (becoming more liberal) and the increase in technology changed relationships too. Technology has really taken alot out of dating and courting and getting to know someone b/c nowadays all we do is tweet, facebook chat and text. But that's another topic for another post lol! thanks for your response :)LaBellaBosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07681833044964414103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8527892193931204855.post-26859009814932356432011-05-04T08:29:51.119-04:002011-05-04T08:29:51.119-04:00Good post!
I feel like marriage is something that ...Good post!<br />I feel like marriage is something that has been taking for granted. Marriage isn't important to me, I feel like it's just for show. Now a days people rush into a relationship just to get some likes on Facebook. I feel like its just a title....maybe it's just me.....Russellhttp://twitter.com/russell55noreply@blogger.com