I'm sure everyone is aware of the drama between Fantasia, Antwaun Cook and his wife Paula. If not then here's the rundown... Fantasia was found to be in an 11 month relationship with Antwaun during his marriage to Paula. When his wife found out, she ended up filing a lawsuit against Fantasia for Alienation of Affection. Believe it or not, this is actually legal in North Carolina. However, Fantasia says that he never told her that he was married. Bottom line he is obviously the source of the problem, so why is she suing Fantasia??
How many times have we seen this scenario: Guy and Wifey are in a relationship. Guy cheats with Her. Wifey finds out and gets mad at Her but stays with Guy. Or better yet they find out about each other and BOTH continue to date him. Now I can't answer for anyone else, but this equation just doesn't add up to me. Sad thing is, I'm sure all of us have either been one of the people in this situation or know someone that has been. I won't say that everyone who finds out about their other half cheating stays, but I guarantee they get mad at the person he/she is cheating with.
I find this to be more typical with women more than men, I'm sure it's because of our cattiness. I know I know, it's the way we are but we really need to do better. Think about it like this, your man is the person whose loyalty lies with you. She doesn't owe you anything. You put your trust in him, not her. So get mad at him... NOT her. Now if she happens to be a friend or someone you're close to then that's a different story for a different post lol!
Really for all you know, he could be kicking all types of game to her.. "man we don't get down like that no more"... "Nah she be bugging, I had to let her go".... Ooooh how about "Naw we just friends, I'm not really trying to settle down right now" lmao that's for another post too! In a nutshell, stop getting mad at the wrong person! How dumb do we look ready to fight over a man because he been creeping, then 5 whole days later we back with him ready to tie the knot if he asks lol. Quote of the day: "It takes two to tango" #POW!
-LaBellaBoss ;*
How many times have we seen this scenario: Guy and Wifey are in a relationship. Guy cheats with Her. Wifey finds out and gets mad at Her but stays with Guy. Or better yet they find out about each other and BOTH continue to date him. Now I can't answer for anyone else, but this equation just doesn't add up to me. Sad thing is, I'm sure all of us have either been one of the people in this situation or know someone that has been. I won't say that everyone who finds out about their other half cheating stays, but I guarantee they get mad at the person he/she is cheating with.
I find this to be more typical with women more than men, I'm sure it's because of our cattiness. I know I know, it's the way we are but we really need to do better. Think about it like this, your man is the person whose loyalty lies with you. She doesn't owe you anything. You put your trust in him, not her. So get mad at him... NOT her. Now if she happens to be a friend or someone you're close to then that's a different story for a different post lol!
Really for all you know, he could be kicking all types of game to her.. "man we don't get down like that no more"... "Nah she be bugging, I had to let her go".... Ooooh how about "Naw we just friends, I'm not really trying to settle down right now" lmao that's for another post too! In a nutshell, stop getting mad at the wrong person! How dumb do we look ready to fight over a man because he been creeping, then 5 whole days later we back with him ready to tie the knot if he asks lol. Quote of the day: "It takes two to tango" #POW!
-LaBellaBoss ;*
Had the exact thoughts the other day :)
ReplyDeleteLOL you a mess
ReplyDeleteLOL my favorite quote: "I may be a messy, but never messy with it!" You know its the truth :)
ReplyDeleteIT DOES TAKE TWO.. BUT NOTHING IS WORSE.. THAN A SCANDALOUS HEIFER, WHO KNOWS SHE IS MESSING WITH SOMEONE ELSES MAN AND LOVES IT... NAW, SHE DON'T OWE THE CHIC ANYTHING.. BUT IS SHE A BOSS CHIC, IF SHE LOVES WEARING THE OTHER WOMAN BADGE WELL? i THINK NOT.. NOW TAKE THAT INTO THE OFFICE AND FILE iT, UNDER BOSSYBADASS LOL...
ReplyDelete~BOSSYA:)