Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Let It Go

Kanye West & ex Amber Rose

Too many times do we find ourselves in a relationship that should have been deadened a long time ago. There are so many situations where a person may be holding on to a relationship that just is not meant to be. Most of the time we are aware that the relationship should be over, but we still try to make it work. Why? For the sake of love of course, possibly even lust. Sometimes I even find that we will go the extra mile for our relationships just because we don't want to be alone.

Whatever the reason may be, if you know you are in a relationship that should have ended prior to now it's time to reevaluate your situation and LET IT GO! Below I've listed the types of people that need to be cut off. So if you feel the person you're dating may be one of these then it's time to chuck the deuces!

Shaunie & Shaq

The Controller- He/she needs to be with you at all times, they try to change who you are and make you the way they want you to be, they regulate where you go and what you do, and they get mad when they don't get their way. On top of all this they say "It's because I love you." Well I'm here to tell you that this is bs! They do it because they want to know your every move. Why? Because if they know what you're doing at all times, then they can do whatever they want. Nine times out of ten, this person is either cheating or has some deep rooted insecurities and issues with jealousy. Either way #letitgo.

Nelly & Ashanti

The "He Says I'm Just a Friend"- He/she is everything you want and more. You two rarely argue. Everything is perfect. Well almost. You can't seem to get this person to commit. So you start to believe that if you don't nag them about anything, it will make them want you more. You think if you are always there for this person and never bring any drama, it will make them want to commit. Guess what? You're wrong. This person may have commitment issues or maybe they just don't want to commit to YOU. I read on a blog not too long ago where men continue to date women without plans of commitment. They do this because they know you will always be there. They know you're fun, you won't question their whereabouts, and you won't pressure them about committing. Hey who wouldn't keep you around?? #letitgo

Dream & Christina Milian

The Player- Ohhh the players *Sigh* You really gotta watch out for them because they are so charming! They tell you EVERYTHING you want to hear and more. But players always reveal themselves later down the road. After awhile all the attention you were getting dwindles until you almost get none. Then they feed you these lines about why they can't be around like they want to. Truth be told, they can't see you as much because they're spreading out their free time between you and everyone else. Constant apologies and little affection are the two main signs that you're getting played. #letitgo

Scott & Kourtney K

The Dead Beat/Gold Digger- This one should pretty much be self explanatory. #comeonson this person is living off you! They're not in love with you, they're in love with what you have and what you do for them. These people are takers and have absolutely nothing to offer. Then when you don't give them what they ask for, they pull the "you don't really care about me" card. Please tell them to kick rocks no socks. SN: Never let a man/woman take from you. If they're not adding to you, they're subtracting. #letitgo

Elin & Tiger Woods
The Liar- OMG he/she lies about everything... for NO REASON! I guess they lie to make themselves feel important. You can never have an honest relationship with a liar. They will never be able to give you what you need because they don't even know who they are. Liars are very lost so they build up this false persona about themselves. There is no way to tell who this person REALLY is inside because they don't even know. #letitgo

The New Year is approaching and what better way to start off your year than to let go of dead weight. Step your game up in 2011. There's someone for everyone so stop wasting your time on the person who obviously is NOT for you! "If he ain't gonna love you the way he should then let it gooo..." *in my best Keyshia Cole voice* lls

SN: The pics mean no harm, just a little fun! LOL...




  1. This was def a good read Shants...since I'm single and have been for almost a year I'm living carefree lol but ima have to spread the we'd to some of my tied up friends! SN I love the pics you used to express your advice! -Elise

  2. Thank you E! It's crazy what we do in the name of love. Then once you're out of the situation you finally realize you should've left a long time ago. It's time for us to step up and take matters into our own hands and leave before we get left! SN: Thanks! These pics are epic lol


  4. Jas I've had someone from more than one category lol but again we #letitgo ;-)